How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 01:28
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Has your wife made you a cuckold?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Does not procrastinate.
What are the challenges associated with the birth narratives of Jesus?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Is there a possibility that we are living in a simulation and that there is a concept of rebirth?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
What should I do? I'm 17 and I'm dating a 23-year-old guy.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Ask yourself:
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Why do nice guys rarely or never win?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Why does Boko Haram attack its own Muslims?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What is the naughtiest fantasy that you've lived out?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What I need from you?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Do people have to be a pastor to baptize?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
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That's it for today.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Do not set goals—set systems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Do crossdressers like wearing pantyliners and tampons in their butts?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
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Procrastinates a lot.
Making more friends is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.